Only Regret Remains [Anger]

Anger is a very natural human experience. Anger is not only created by God for humans. God created anger for all living things on earth. Be it animals, plants, even nature has anger that the purpose of anger is given by God, namely to express a living being's annoyance to something that he considers wrong and different, and even destructive. but the anger that we often see and pay attention to is anger that comes from humans. However, has anger ever solved a problem? for some people yes but for me anger will make things worse and make the problem bigger. I have a different perception of anger. so I will write about it in this edition. I hope that my writing in this edition will be of interest to all readers.

Anger is a natural trait that exists in all humans. All humans are given the nature of anger by God without exception. Its purpose is as an expression of annoyance over something that is considered displeasing in oneself and in life. Will anger solve a problem? for some people yes. because after venting their anger over what they don't like (cursing, blaspheming, destroying and even insulting) they will feel relieved. but have they ever thought about the problems they face as a result of the anger is over? for some people yes because they have expressed their emotions. but my thoughts are different because every outburst of anger will definitely cause an emotion and that emotion will result in a mere destruction. I once solved a problem with anger and the problem I experienced was finally not resolved and even more rash.

The problem I experienced was that I wanted to collect a debt from my friend. he is my best friend. My friend used to have a chicken farm business and he borrowed money from me as his capital to enlarge the chicken farming business he was starting. the money is not much but I really need it at that time. I charged it several times until I couldn't wait anymore until my emotions peaked and at that time I almost got into a fight with my friend because of my unpaid debt case. In the end, because we were both emotional, we never saw each other again. until in the end I thought with a cool head to solve my debt problem, and I met him by bringing several figures in the village as mediators. finally in the near future, my debt with my friend can be finished.

From what happened to me I came to the conclusion: if a problem is faced with emotion and anger, then wait for destruction to come. like my story, i almost got into a fight with my best friend and we were almost forever enemies due to my reckless actions and the anger i poured out. if from the first I used a cool head to think maybe that incident would never happen in my life. so therefore, every problem we go through don't put anger as a solution. but try to think with a cool head first so that the problems we face can be completed perfectly and run as we expect.