Buoyed, just meaning to be lifted--I'll share what lifted me and perhaps it will do the same for you?
Yes, always boundaries and also reaching out and trying new so we're not stuck in what we think is the right fence, or we may limit our growth. Such a balancing act as everything always is.
Yes, I think so: the only space from which we can truly offer an authentic vibe that’s actually serving everyone, what does that say if people can’t respect that? Probably not the types we’d want to be giving our best to, if they aren’t unwilling to honor the boundaries we set for preserving our own wellbeing.
And, as I get more firm in prioritizing my well-being I am surprised, not entirely, but a bit, at the speed of this moving. How fast what is around you, people and/or situations change.
And, EXACTLY that, taking responsibility for having set-up the situation by our previous patterns. Just had some hardcore practice with that last night and not so easy because if the other wants to stay status quo, they will do what they can to bring you back to the old pattern. We either love and grow together, because both peoples patterns must change, or we break apart.