Why is it so hard to find a guy who will commit? The truth is men are psychopaths. They are crazy to think women are fantasy sex pots 24/7. These days women have to work, take care of children and our homes. We do this in good health or bad. I met a young guy (in his 30s) last night and introduced myself. He was very nice looking and had lots of frequent flyer rewards. As the conversation deepens I skip over the flirt and keep it friendly. That did not work out for him. After I felt like he didn't need anymore friends. Honestly guys motives are only sex when it comes to attraction. What ever happen to the 3 month rule. After a week any man will leave if there is no sex involved. Sorry he has no need to stay, answer your call, or text back. There may be an exception to this situation. We'll call it a rare instance many women don't get the luxury to experience. So the question goes can a girl be just friends with a guy? Simply put, no. Men will not commit because they know they can wait until they are 48 years of age and marry younger. This behavior is not natural, yet it is accepted. Further more you can give the love of your life a oyster but he or she has to began to enjoy it.