China has an adage,the method is different,do not seek, which tells us if two individuals got different reflection towards affairs,they can't get alone well with each other for long.
Take friends for example. Provided that you keep in touch with your friends in high spirits, not only on study, work even in life or something else. You may feel a kind of identity cause you are alike. In contrast,just imagine you are totally various. You prefer quietude while she likes movement. As time goes, you may hate the way staying with her, as simple choices can lead to argument,such as,where to study, what for lunch,and etc. Thus,your feelings will fade away and you may get bored and separated from each other. So does with your friendship.
When choosing false friends we also have chance to get relief. Just leave and pick another one. Seriously,if you select the unfitted couple,the consequence may be more complicated to receive. As the pace of life grows faster and faster,the instant love emerges gradually. A great number of people tend to chase a sense of pleasure, so that they were likely to marry their spouses after knowing each other for merely one week. It sounds crazy,but it did exist. They get married in rush, afterwards delivering a baby. Out of surprise,they will get divorced. And that's the end. No doubt,different viewpoints are the chief criminal. Although two of them may choose to make compromise sometime when it is their own contradictions. The results will get reverse when deciding all staffs about their children. Where to study,whether to practice the piano or play chess. There will be an army of fights between them. How does a discordant marriage create a good atmosphere for kids. All of the conflicts are occurred on account of different views.
Although it's hard for people to live together when their opinions are differ. It doesn't mean it's impossible. Tolerance,kindness,as well as understanding are needed in a good relationship. As you want,you can make some necessary change to fix the other one.
