Giving adds meaning to our life and fills it with love. By giving to others we make a positive impact on our society and make the world a better place to live. Giving as a win win situation. You help someone else and at the same time you make yourself feel better. Why do we find it so hard to give sometimes? When you give it means that you care about someone or something and when you care, people might take advantage of it and exploit you.
Maybe you are afraid that if you give, you will have less. Maybe you are suspicious of how people will use the money you give them or maybe some people might not be interested in your help and get angry. Not giving is not the solution. It's like not loving so you won't get hurt. Not enjoying the moment because you know it will over. Not crossing the road because you might get hit by a car. The solution is giving wisely. Try to learn how your giving helps and what it causes even if you are wrong sometimes at least you tired and did what you could. A common mistake is thinking that you need to have more in order to give. Regarding the money, you can give even if you don't have much. You can give some change to homeless people, donate to charity or support your favorite personalities by buying their products.
Regarding to other aspects you don't have to be smarter or more skilled than others. It is possible to give at your current situation. For example, there are more positive or caring people than you but you can always brighten up someone's day by saying a good word or helping them out. When you give, you open a channel to the abundance of universe. If you feel blocked in a certain life area, just give. Need more love ? give love. need more money ? Give money or be helpful without asking for payment. How does it make sense when you give it makes the impression that you have what to give. You are not in a state of shortage.
You start to get used to this feeling and it will come back to you. If you give love and spread positivity, you get used to this and people will start to react this way around you. If you offer free services to people, someone will thank you by paying or maybe you'll come up with new creative ways to earn money. True giving comes from the heart if you give in order to get it's not giving, it's a deal. Never give out of superiority and try not to embarrass the other person by letting them feel inferior that they are a burden to you. It may be hard at the beginning and may feel forced but after you practice you start giving with love without expecting in return.
You can start to practice giving by doing small things like pick up trash from public places, be kind to someone, smile, volunteer at the local animal shelter and many other options. Of course, you can take a few steps further and do something big but every little good deed has an impact. Don't use giving as a tactic of getting things in return or feel like someone owes you something. Give happily and make it a way of life.
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