I often heard this from my father growing up. I have an older sister who can be quite difficult to deal, but she is very much loved by my dad. Whenever there were times when she didn’t like something I did, she would immediately complain to my dad. Even when she was the one at fault, my dad would still take her side. There were times when I would end up crying, and my dad would tell me, “You’re the one who should adjust because you’re the one who understands more.”

Honestly, it can be exhausting to always be the one who has to adjust. And when I get tired of constantly adjusting, I travel because it helps me heal from the things I’ve been through and gives me a chance to breathe.

Haha, it seems like I’m getting too dramatic now. 😅