My son in law also has ADHD. When I was chatting with him recently about his newfound love of coffee, he said that it helps him manage his ADHD.

I know that he had lots of problems in earlier life but he has a good handle on it now, is very high functioning, and doesn't seem to care about what people might think of him. That's not to say that he is aloof - quite the opposite. He's supportive and caring but he's stopped caring about a label that means as much as the colour of his eyes.

!BBH