Good afternoon everyone! Hope we are good .
I Welcome you all to my blog today on the hl-w208e1 on the learning and unlearning of life .
Life is all about learning and unlearning everyday where we learn new things and also leave the bad ones that will drag or delay us from the good and necessary things we need to know, Hopefully to me life is a great teacher each day of life and for the serious ones , life has a lot to offer them .
This issue of admitting people has been part of me that i have been looking for a way to withdraw from because many people has used that as an advantage to gain whatever they feel like gaining and go their way , Meanwhile people (many) use to always be after their own their own in the process the became selfish about themselves without considering others and what others pass through also but the forget that life is all about Being kind to people and maintain that kindness by showing the same love and kindness that people show to them . But due to selfishness they only believe and think that theirs is more important to others.
Why i have been emphasizing on this issue of selfishness is because will i say that i personally have learnt a very big lesson from people because of been too good and well i will not regret it but rather i want to change and be be very mean this period , been kind is really good but some people due not desever that kindness due to their selfish characters.
I have my life planned that i only do things that matters once i noticed that you are only there maybe for beneficial purposes i will cut of that friendship as soon as possible and find my way to something that will benefits me rather than wasting my time in a friendship that will only be one sided.
Before now once we are friends i do everything possible to maintain the friendship but when i realised that you are torn on my flesh i will find my way out of that friendship . Before now i was learning how to be mean just to show some people that i am never a fool but rather i decided to be calm in some things just for the friendship to be there and keep going. But now i have learnt my lessons because of my previous experience and i have unlearnt that in which i use to do before because of life experience ,though setting my boundaries does not mean i am been wicked but rather it is to maintain my lane and be at peace .. It is better to unlearn and be at peace than been at than in which we use to know that is depriving one from self peace and worries.
Thank you for stopping and reading my blog today i really appreciate it and also looking forward for your engagements.
