many times we find our selves loosing the very people that we could have held close for years. Some times we leave people in relationships because they dumped us, or we dumped them for a reason any way. Each one has a story to tell, or a reason to defend about why they quit their relationship.
This is all good for the better of one's self. It may be a time of relief, pain, or whatever it could be. Never the less, sometimes we leave people who we fail to completely forget. There are times when we leave people because we were swayed by bad influence, or sometimes simply because we felt we were not being appreciated, taken care of, abused, cheated or just other reasons. Quiting means we wanted to move on. Or fairly say, they left us. But we should move on. Sadly enough though the truth is there are always possibilities of linking back again. There is the possibility of reunion, and in the best interest of family, children, friendship and old times together
such reunions are good. But they may come with costs.
Here is what is likely to happen.....
> : Your ex may only come because of certain developments in your life.
> : Others may only come back to use you again.
> : Others genuinely come back for good.
> : Others may only come back because a way has come to an end for them. Having said so, it is wise that we make good decisions and be sure for such decisions of restarting afresh with our broken relationships.
This is not meant to say we should not forgive, but it is to say that we should be extra careful so that we are not hurt again. *AS THEY SAY, TWICE BEATEN, TWICE SHY*. Thus, with me, when I break up with someone, it means there situations, points and instances that we could not agree on. Therefore, there are few chances that it would work again, unless otherwise. For this I believe, it is better to move on than going back. Restart afresh and focus on the future. If not careful, you may find yourself in the same place again. Remember to follow on
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