It's scary when you realize that you don't have the same opinions, Or desires as those around you. I'm experiencing that now.
We always hear that it's "okay" to be different. But many of us, Deep down don't think so. And we often end up conforming, Just because everyone else is.
Don't just stand alone for the heck of it, Unless it's something you truly believe in. Sometimes you are alone for a very smart reason....
Because the thing you are pursuing, Actually is a bad choice.
Screwing up sometimes, Is a good thing, It forces us to learn real quick.
We end up growing faster, Even if we ned up with a ton of people staring or laughing at us.
Sometimes when you lead the way, And people see that you are getting great results from your choices, You'll have a chance to teach and help others where you are at. This will not only help you become better at what you are doing But Will allow you to potentially get other perspectives to address better the project you are working on.
I was disappointed when I grew up and started realizing what this "Adulthood" Is really about. It broke my heart, Because what most people "Want." Are things I can never see myself wanting.
Such as a stable career, Or Living in the same house with a picket fence and kids. Being the stay at home mom, Having to spend my life cleaning up after kids, Running errands. And watching lame sports events.
Ugh....
Now there is nothing wrong with it, If that's what you want. Then go for it! But for me, That's not a life I want to live. And by being open to the idea of making what others see "crazy" Decisions. I am giving myself a unique life. Here I am 24 years old, And I feel like everything I've ever wanted is within reach. This is all because I decided to get out of my comfort zone and try something new that wasn't as common.
I graduated high school late so that I could focus on art more.
I dropped out of college.
I started my own business.
I taught myself about stock investing at the age of 16.
I'm so grateful even now, That my younger self-made such smart choices.
When you are willing to stand alone. Often you'll have better opportunities.
What got me to become self-employed, I don't remember where I heard it. But someone said, "When you work at a large company, You have much more people to compete with, Then if you were to start your own business." It's so true!
We often live the only way that we know to live, and that's the same way most people end up living. Don't be afraid to be different. And make crazy choices. There are so many benefits to doing so.
