Humans are just social creatures. We live in groups in the society in order to survive. But in society we despise different people from time to time because of our money or because of professional differences or because of ethnicity or group. Which is not desirable at all.
We forget that every creature on this earth is the creation of the same Creator. He was created the way God created him. Moreover, we often despise the people around our society for various reasons. But for once we don’t think about the emotional state of the person we despise! There is only temporary satisfaction in disregarding others. But we never imagine how much damage is being done to others because of this temporary satisfaction.
Honestly, there is nothing to despise. Many times the person we despise for something, at one point the person succeeds in that subject and puts us to shame. The situation determines when a person goes on his way. Many times we despise our friends for various reasons but once it is seen that friend is in a better position than us.
To give such a practical example, when we took the Honors exam or the Masters exam, we had a friend who copied the other and passed the exam. So many people despised him. But one time I saw that suddenly he has become a BCS cadre. That means he is currently employed in a government high school. In fact, there is nothing to despise.
Also nowadays people despise each other the most for their looks and beauty. But it turned out that the boy was very handsome and smart and he was always talking about this beauty of his and neglecting others. Once it was seen that he had married an ugly girl. Again, after a while, her beauty is gradually lost. So there is nothing to despise. Because while contempt gives us temporary pleasure, it becomes a cause of many troubles in the minds of others. So we should not float in the sea of sorrows of others for our little temporary pleasure. In the end, we must remember that we are the creation of the Creator, the one we despise is the creation of the same Creator.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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