Believe it or not! We depend on others, directly or indirectly. We feel more comfortable being dependent on others than doing anything on our own. We become more dependent on others than we are on ourselves. And that's why we're sure to lose.
Occasionally at work or in personal life we have to be dependent on the people around us. That's normal. But to be honest, in most cases we become more dependent on others. As a result, we make no effort on our own or try less to do it ourselves.
Suppose I take an exam. But my preparation is very low. Or my confidence is very low. That’s why I became more dependent on the friend in the seat next to me. Or my friend told me to depend on him. And there comes a feeling of laziness in us. We give discounts on our preparations. But the test shows that the friend we were dependent on is not helping us for any reason or we are not getting enough help from him. As a result, we are sure to lose.
This is just one example. There are many realities that people lose in all areas of life because they depend on others. They are not valued in society because they are dependent on others. People know them as human beings or people look at them with hatred. But if you depend on yourself and not on others, you can get rid of all those slanders or losers. In fact, people are busy with themselves and do not have time to think about others. We are unnecessarily dependent on them! Where do they have so much time to think about us? And that's why we lose.
We should not be dependent on others but be self-reliant. This will make our journey easier and less likely to lose. Because it depends on us so it will give us courage to move forward and help us to build accordingly. So we should be self-reliant.
I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am Bangladeshi and proud to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi because I love my country so much. Because this is my motherland. I am engaged in the teaching profession. When I can teach my students something new, I have a different feeling. I also like to learn and do something new every day, I like to mingle with new people and like to learn something new. I always think of myself as a student of nature. Because we have a lot to learn from nature. I just try small to learn. I love to travel. A lot can be learned from nature through travel. Love to learn and write. I have been trying to write since I was a child and that is why I often fall behind in writing. I try to respect people. I think if you respect someone, your self-esteem does not decrease but increases.
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