hello steemians , i want to talk today about the first impression and making people love you If you make the right impression during the first three or four seconds of a new meeting, you create an awareness that you are sincere, safe and trustworthy and the opportunity to go further create rapport will present itself

The Greeting :

We call the first few seconds of contact the "greeting."
Greetings are broken into five parts: Open—Eye—
Beam—Hi!—Lean. These five actions constitute a welcoming
program to carry out in a first encounter.
Open. The first part of the greeting is to open your
attitude and your body. For this to work successfully,
you must have already decided on a positive attitude
that's right for you. This is the time to really feel and
be aware of it.

Check to see that your body language is open. If you
have the right attitude, this should take care of itself.
Keep your heart aimed directly at the person you're
meeting. Don't cover your heart with your hands or
arms and, when possible, unbutton your jacket or coat
Eye , The second part of the greeting involves your
eyes. Be first with eye contact. Look this new person
directly in the eye. Let your eyes reflect your positive
attitude. To state the obvious: eye contact is real contact!

Get used to really looking at other people's eyes.
When you're watching TV one evening, note the
eye color of as many people as possible and say
the name of the color to yourself. The next day,
do the same with every person you meet, looking
him or her straight in the eye.
Beam. This part is closely related to eye contact.
Beam! Be the first to smile. Let your smile reflect your
attitude.
Now you've gained the other person's attention
through your open body language, your eye contact and
your beaming smile. What that person is picking up subconsciously
is an impression not of some grinning,
gawking fool (though you may briefly fear you look like
one!) but of someone who is completely sincere.
Hi! Whether it's "Hi!" or "Hello!" or even "Yo!" say it
with pleasing tonality and attach your own name to it
("Hi! I'm Naomi"). As with the smile and the eye contact,
be the first to identify yourself. It is at this point, and
within only a few seconds, that you are in a position to
gather tons of free information about the person you're
meeting—information you can put to good use later in
your conversation.