Yo siempre voy a aportar por el amor, as铆 suene cursi, yo siento que a pesar de que a veces las historias de amor pueden llegar a ser dolorosas, pero hay otras que si colocas los contras y pros en una balanza, pesan m谩s las vivencias buenas.
Es m谩s que claro que no todo el tiempo una relaci贸n debe ser color de rosa, en ocasiones tienen sus espinas bien afiladas, la cosa es que debemos aprender a controlar nuestras emociones a la hora de los momentos dif铆ciles para que nadie salga herido o si se hirieron los dos recoger los pedazos y hacer como esa t茅cnica Japonesa.
Es una t茅cnica Japonesa que en el lugar de tirar las piezas de cer谩mica rotas se unen con oro, esta filosof铆a plantean que las heridas forman parte de la historia de un objeto o un ser y eso es lo que lo hace 煤nico e irrepetible, es el arte de amar las heridas y valorar lo que ella nos brindan, es la capacidad de transformarnos, tus heridas no son para avergonzarte, son para apreciar todo lo que has logrado de ellas, es valorar el pasado y los supuestos errores, ya que no tiene sentido despreciarlos o culparte por ellos. tus heridas te conectan con tu capacidad de recuperaci贸n de levantarte despu茅s de una ca铆da. Aprender del dolor y del pasado te permite pasar de qui茅n eras o crees quien eres a quien deseas ser.
Por eso a veces las parejas son tan duraderas porque a pesar de que se han quebrado, han tenido esa sabidur铆a de abrazar el problema y transformarlo. Tambi茅n es v谩lido que si de un 100% de tu relaci贸n tiene solo el 30% salvable pienso que es mejor darle vuelta a la p谩gina y escribir una nueva historia para el bien superior de los dos.
No me arrepentir茅 jamas de dar amor verdadero porque eso es lo que soy, lo que llevo en mi coraz贸n, amo enamorarme (risas), pero cr茅anme que de eso he aprendido much铆simo, no es la primera vez que al terminar una relaci贸n, tenga que lidiar con dolores sentimentales y a pesar que me terminaron de partir el coraz贸n, tengo la capacidad de ser tipo ave f茅nix (morir y resurgir de mis cenizas) y es as铆, siempre me levanto mas fuerte y con nuevos aprendizajes, nadie muere por un hombre o una mujer, hay personas que se quitan la vida porque piensan que ese dolor es dif铆cil de superar y piensan que no va ver una persona igual y hasta mejor para ellas.
Ser铆a muy penoso que despu茅s de esto me rinda ante el dolor y diga: - Me voy a suicidar (risas) mi madre no tuvo una hija cobarde, soy una llorona, pero tambi茅n soy una guerrera, aparte de eso tengo una intuici贸n que debo de prestar m谩s atenci贸n porque de esto tuve muchas se帽ales pero no le puse alto al coraz贸n y estas con las consecuencias.
Tal vez lo que ten铆a esa persona era un enamoramiento de momentos, pero yo me hice la pel铆cula (risas), despu茅s que termin贸 todo fui dura conmigo misma y me desequilibre, la verdad nunca me espere una estocada de esa magnitud o por lo menos de el.
No fue mi intenci贸n hacerte tanto da帽o.
Perdoname de verdad, fui un cobarde por no haberte dicho la verdad antes.
Otras personas te han hecho cosas peores.
Tu no me entend铆as, solo quer铆a m谩s empat铆a y que me acompa帽aras en mi proceso.
Odio tu sarcasmo, cuando te hablo y me miras y te r铆es como si de nada de lo que te diga fuera verdad o suficiente.
1: Ok pedazo de zoquete, no fue tu intenci贸n, pero me hicistes esperar 2 meses para luego darme la estocada del a帽o.
2: Ser sincero es lo mejor que puedes hacer, as铆 la verdad sea dolorosa ya que eso siempre va hablar bien de ti, incluso si la otra persona no est谩 de acuerdo, definitivamente la verdad es un privilegio que pocos tienen.
3: Quer铆as m谩s empat铆a, me aguante cosas que dentro de m铆 sab铆a que no estaban bien y decirte que estabas siendo manipulado con tu ex mujer, con el cuento que si no volv铆as con ella se iba a suicidar y esas mamadas, en todo ese tiempo te di 3 semanas para arreglar tus problemas y evitar que cuando yo estuviera alla mi vida no fuera un caos por tu falta de firmeza ante sus manipulaciones, (ya ten铆a un a帽o separado de su ex, solo que fue una relaci贸n de 17 a帽os y ten铆an una hija de 13 a帽os).
4: Como no sonre铆r, si mientras me hablabas todas las mentiras te agarraba en el aire, porque tu solito te entregabas. Cosa que no deb铆 dejar pasar y hacerme la loca en ciertas circunstancias).
5: Jam谩s te compares con otras personas que han pasado por mi vida, si me hicieron m谩s da帽o seg煤n tu, eso te califica como un perdedor y otro m谩s del mont贸n.
I will always contribute for love, even if it sounds corny, I feel that even though sometimes love stories can be painful, but there are others that if you place the pros and cons on a scale, the good experiences outweigh the good ones.
It is more than clear that not all the time a relationship should be rosy, sometimes they have their sharp thorns, the thing is that we must learn to control our emotions at the time of the difficult moments so that no one gets hurt or if they hurt each other pick up the pieces and do as that Japanese technique.
It is a Japanese technique that instead of throwing the broken ceramic pieces are joined with gold, this philosophy states that the wounds are part of the history of an object or a being and that is what makes it unique and unrepeatable, is the art of loving the wounds and value what they give us, is the ability to transform us, your wounds are not to be ashamed, they are to appreciate everything you have achieved from them, is to value the past and the alleged mistakes, since it makes no sense to despise or blame you for them. Your wounds connect you with your resilience to pick yourself up after a fall. Learning from the pain and the past allows you to move from who you were or think you are to who you want to be.
That is why sometimes couples are so durable because even though they have been broken, they have had the wisdom to embrace the problem and transform it. It is also valid that if out of 100% of your relationship you have only 30% salvageable I think it is best to turn the page and write a new story for the greater good of both of you.
I will never regret giving true love because that is what I am, what I carry in my heart, I love to fall in love (laughs), but believe me I have learned a lot from that, it is not the first time that after ending a relationship, I have to deal with sentimental pain and although I ended up breaking my heart, I have the ability to be like a phoenix (die and rise again from the ashes) and that's how it is, I always get up stronger and with new lessons, nobody dies for a man or a woman, there are people who take their own life because they think that this pain is difficult to overcome and they think that they will not see an equal or even better person for them.
It would be very painful if after this I give up in front of the pain and say: - I am going to commit suicide (laughs) my mother did not have a coward daughter, I am a crybaby, but I am also a warrior, besides that I have an intuition that I should pay more attention because I had many signs of this but I did not put a stop to the heart and these with the consequences.
Maybe what that person had was an infatuation of moments, but I made myself the movie (laughs), after everything ended I was hard on myself and I was unbalanced, the truth is I never expected a blow of that magnitude or at least from him.
It was not my intention to hurt you so much.
I am truly sorry, I was a coward for not telling you the truth sooner.
Other people have done worse things to you.
You didn't understand me, I just wanted more empathy and for you to be with me in my process.
I hate your sarcasm, when I talk to you and you look at me and laugh as if nothing I tell you is true or enough.
1: Ok piece of crap, you didn't mean to, but you made me wait 2 months and then gave me the shock of the year.
2: Being honest is the best thing you can do, even if the truth is painful because it will always speak well of you, even if the other person does not agree, definitely the truth is a privilege that few have.
3: You wanted more empathy, I put up with things that inside me I knew were not right and tell you that you were being manipulated with your ex-wife, with the story that if you did not go back to her she was going to commit suicide and all that crap, in all that time I gave you 3 weeks to fix your problems and avoid that when I was there my life was not a chaos because of your lack of firmness in front of her manipulations, (he already had a year separated from his ex, only it was a relationship of 17 years and they had a 13 year old daughter).
4: How not to smile, if while you were talking to me all the lies I grabbed you in the air, because you gave yourself away. Something that I shouldn't have let pass and play crazy in certain circumstances).
5: Never compare yourself with other people who have passed through my life, if they hurt me more according to you, that qualifies you as a loser and another one of the bunch.
