Although a breakup can tear you apart and make you feel like there’s no reason to go on with your life, as surprisingly as it may seem, it has a few good parts.
There are some amazing things that happen to you when you’re alone after a long time. When you breakup with someone, your spiritual experience will be so much different from what you’ve felt before, and the effect will be twice as powerful if you just escaped from a long term relationship that was toxic and drained you from your strength.
These are the amazing things that you’ll experience after a breakup.
When you were in a relationship, all of your free time, that was already limited, was given to your partner. But now that you’re finally alone, you have all the freedom in the world to do anything you want.
You can do whatever makes you happy and no one can stop you from doing so.
Now that you really know what you deserve, you won’t allow anyone to come into your life. Once you’ll get to know yourself and love yourself, you will realize that not anyone deserves your love.
You won’t have to worry about fights, stress, wondering if your partner is cheating on you, worrying about buying gifts for your anniversary.
You don’t depend on your partner anymore, his/her happiness isn’t your anymore. Now you’re the only one you should be worried about and take care of.
There’s no one there to judge you or make you forget about your goals and dreams. Your life is in your own hands, you’re independent and you can go for whatever dream you have.
When you’re in a relationship, it’s not unusual that your friends aren’t your priority anymore. But when you breakup with your partner, in order to move on, you will need your friends more than ever.
Now you’ll have the chance to bond again with them and spend more time together.
The best feeling you’ll have after a hard breakup will be to get to know yourself again. You will rediscover yourself and you will also learn that you are more powerful than you thought, since getting over a breakup requires a lot of strength.
