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Hello everyone here on steemit. I'd like us to talk about trust.People see trust to be the firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something.Its not that easy to trust someone or something. A lot of relationships that crush is as a result of trust issues. People live together for years without building trust.People sometimes interchange trust with respect this is what most relationships actually looks like.Trust and believe have deeper meanings when it comes to using it in relationships. Trust would actually mean that a person places complete confidence in another person. Respect is a term that defines the feeling of holding an entity or person in a high esteem, or valuing their opinions greatly. A few years ago a friend had a girlfriend that he love so much that he was willing to die for her and the girl loved him the same way. These couples have been together for about five years thinking they trust each other but that was not the case. The guy had a job and he was to attend a meeting with a female colleague in the capital. Their organisation didnt have enough money to book two hostel rooms so they had to sleep in one room for the night. They did and attended the meeting in peace. He told his girlfriend about the meeting and she got really bored because he slept on the same bed with a different lady.He tried to explain to her that nothing happened but she didnt trust him. This led to their breakup and it was really sad.The guy knew his girlfriend would be bored when she hears that so he had secret cameras in the room to show as evidence.He was sad his fiance didnt trust him so after a month of the breakup he sent her the video. She came back to apologise for not trusting him and he accepted her apology. All that am trying to say here is we can live together for 100 years but if we dont learn to trust each other, its gonna be like we just met each other but its only time that changed.
