What you think is a hoax, is not.
What you think they say to cheat you is not true.
What you imagine he did before deceiving you, did not happen.
Only until you have the concrete evidence in your hands all of the above is true.
The artifice of cheating is admirable in many people until they have no return and are discovered in all their lies.
What we do to deceive is to believe that what we say is true and then to think that the other person will believe us, which is already a total deception.
Well the need to deceive in man is to cover something wrong and in the woman is to discover something new.
The exciting of cheating becomes additive until it is replaced by another new experience. So the deception drug becomes the typical behavior to maintain relationships with many couples.
What we do is fool ourselves and let the other person feel cheated.