Lately, I've found it rather hypocritical to query people for not checking up on me, I've tried to be more considerate and I've discovered that sometimes the times we need people to be there for us are the times they also need us to be there for them. I talked about how I performed an experiment to showcase when people are likely going to show interest in our well-being.
Care and love goes two ways and being able to accept the fact that people not being there for us is because they're caught up with issues of their own is rather selfless. I talk about why it's important to hold no grudge when people aren't there for us, rather let us show them them we care by being the first to extent a hand.
