Trust is the most fragile thing in the world and sometimes we can't mend it. People can forgive but cannot forget betrayal and that's because we tend to learn by experience and try not to let previous bad experience repeat itself.
For the past 4 days the person has worked with has begged me to come back working with her, but I was already planning my exit got a long time ago, and this happened because of distrust issues. I felt she wasn't in an emotionally stable state doesn't understand the concept of partnership. She overestimated her role and felt she could play my part. I realized I couldn't play her part.
Even though she did about 5 to 10% while I did over 90% I still didn't underestimate her part and knew that part was important for business, but she didn't do the same for me, and this came from months of arrogance, and so many other things that I put up for a long time.
For example we had a project where we made $6000 and she was supposed to actually sell the token and take profit and then give me my share of the money, but out of greed she refused to.
I them advised her to sell 50% so we can at least take profit, especially for my hard work, but she refused altogether, saying the money was hers and she can do whatever she wanted.
The token of that project actually dumped to 300$ even though it was actually worth 6000$ when we got it, and today the project took back their coin and rendered it "unsellable".
Of course she reminded me of myself, didn't sell at the peak of 2021 or took profit, and I tried warning her to sell token rewards for marketing done even though we considered ourselves partners.
The money wants life-changing but it could set you up to take care of a sort lot of bills for months or even investment opportunities, and I think this decision was definitely erratic and working with someone who doesn't consider your opinion when it comes to finance and revenue generation is a huge red flag.
Hold every loss accountable
Of course the platform was hers, but I brought in the money via the platform, but at that moment I realized something; you can never build on a platform that's not yours and expect fair treatments.
Of course I could, but she didn't value my place as a contributor and as a partner rather as a work. These establishment of facts is why I've equally decided to ignore her pleading and continue with my plans of quitting.
She claim she is now changed and will do better, but honestly she cannot control it. She's inherently what she's is. Trust is fragile and "un-mendable" but she's young and will now have to learn the hard way.
Lessons learned, howbeit, the hard way. Age, desperation, greed and fear can affect us all when it comes to making decisions, but it hurts more when it is the hard way
