That pressure affects a lot of the female folks and I honestly don't know why. I understand packaging, infact I do packaging too, but not at the detriment of my own realistic state of life. This is why I mostly don't wear, look or give off impression of what I am not. It can be really crazy but I think that's just how it is. Imagine going through hardship and trying to live like that is not my reality, wearing expensive clothes or hair to attract a rich man lol, it's honestly crazy. But then I remember that like likes of Kim Kardashian became popular by doing BBL and faking it before they made it.