Having or not having money can shape people differently. I believe there's no one who is naturally careful or careless with money. I think human beings are like sponge, we just soak up whatever is our present reality.
We're not monetarily defined to act in a certain way, we just become, adapt and live like our reality looks like.
However, financially compatible people are still the best people to be spouses with, business affiliate, friends and even comrades.
My point is that it's better to have people who can relate your financial situation because you can reason on the same wavelength with them, their lifestyle is something you can relate with, including your choices too.
Yesterday I talked about someone who I know that his girlfriend was always angry that he couldn't give her money to pay for someone of her lifestyle.
Now you'd have thought that since the girl wasn't doing so well financially that she would adjust to the reality of her financial situation, but no. She didn't.
So you can be on the same place with some financially and they still would synch themselves or adjust to their reality, they'll continue looking for ways to live lifestyles beyond their means, and you cannot build businesses, partnership or marriage with these types of people.
You'll just get into disagreements of all kind with them, and that's how crazy it is.
This is why a rich and a poor person cannot remain friends forever. People of the same status finds it very easy to remain friends, and if they move simultaneously in life, they can remain friends forever, but this might not be the case if one person moves and the other person doesn't.
People just find it very easy to move at the pace of those they're affiliated with, and sometimes it's not about loyalty or having a bad attitude, it's just how life is actually. I have moved with rich people of all gender, and I have been friends with people who are better than me financially, and vice versa.
For me, I don't think it's hard to be friends with someone I'm better than in terms of finance, this isn't actually the point of this post, my main point is that some people have a different financial mindset which is actually different from what their real financial reality is.
The lady I talked about with someone I know, she wasn't doing so great in terms of finance, but she spends way too much for her financial standing, which can be very disturbing if you ask me. Her partner didn't spend that way, and even though he was in a much better financial position, he still didn't spend that way.
Now Image you own a business with someone who likes to prioritize extravagant spending, the business will inevitably fall and that's simply because you'll never agree on what best for the business.
Two people who have different opinions about money can never build anything that depends on money to grow. This is because I believe we can never truly convince someone to have the money ideas we have, they'll simply never key into our ideologies except they were that way from the beginning.
I still believe that someone else can not change another person, it's just the way life is, people will mostly change from learning life lessons the hard way, not because someone actually told them to change.
This is how rigid we are when it comes to learning life lessons
The identity we have can be seen in our perspective with money. Apparently, marrying people who cannot understand the uncertainty of life's financial challenges is a honestly bad choice.
While I understand people marrying for beauty, sexual affiliations and interests. I think we sometimes underestimate the fact that marriage is a lifelong commitment and failing to see the issues we have in our present society with people divorcing in the early years of their marriage just points out to the things we need to see.
People need to be careful with people they're going to be affiliated with. Irrespective of whatever the affiliation is, provided it involves decisions regarding money and finances.
You will always do better with people who can easily understand your financial perspective and are willing to reason or think on the same wavelength as you.
Money will generally cause disagreements between people, and that's why you have to choose your affiliations properly.
People don't think that this is a big deal, but it actually is. I learned this lesson with some of the experience I've had in my life, and while the consequences hasn't been dire, I still think or believe that for many people out there, they'll learn this lesson the hard way.
