- Inconsistent behavior*: They might be friendly one moment and distant or critical the next.
- Backhanded compliments*: They give compliments that are laced with subtle insults or criticisms.
- Gossiping*: They might gossip about you behind your back or share your secrets with others.
- Manipulation*: They might try to manipulate you into doing things that benefit them, not you.
- Lack of support*: They're not supportive of your goals, dreams, or decisions.
- Passive-aggressive behavior*: They might exhibit passive-aggressive behavior, such as giving you the silent treatment or making sarcastic comments.
- Self-serving*: They only reach out to you when they need something, not when you need them.
- can't defend you at your back
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