I have always believed in "when one door closes another one will certainly open without delay".
With this I am able to put up with life changes.
Another phrase I love is "there are a lot of fishes in the river".
In life, I have learnt not to depend too much on people or hang myself on a particular person for too long.
I just feel that when there is need to let go, I should and make sure not to end on a bad note.
You might be wondering why all these talk is coming from.
Real talk Wk 11 came with an interesting question that you might love to check out here.
I will briefly tell you about the week's topic "When change a natural life experience happened with a friend, family or lover,how did it reshape you?"
This is me summarizing all the ideas for write, you should visit the official post, it will interest you to make an entry..
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Now you see why I made the comment above.
In most cases, when someone begins to showcase some kind attitude and character, it is not entirely change but who they are.
It just happens that you are just noticing those things.
While in most cases the change occurred between the observer and the doer.
You changed, that's the main reason you noticed the change in another person, the change didn't just happen one way.
I had a friend who I usually share almost everything with, I was just too comfortable with him.
But, I noticed some certain things, that I wouldn't want to put up with because I would end up hurting myself.
So, I felt it was time to give space and let go.
I gradually gave him space, he made it more easier by distancing himself as well.
That was when I found out that maybe with him I changed while with me i didn't want to fill a vacant space that he never asked for.
This didn't mean I was disappointed or devalue what we had before.
I just couldn't continue and I was assuming too much.
Let me not bore you with lots of talk and stop my write here.
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