They say that in life , the permanent thing is change. And this change does not just occur in one aspect of life, rather it touches every aspect of life. They way we reason, do things, the things we ones value at times becomes valueless.
Growing older you discover that you keep loosing interest over somethings that you ones take it as part of your life, even people that use to become so close to you then , gradually distance themselves from you or you do same, just because of the change in life's perspective. This is one reason I keep telling people that there is no need to die for anything or anybody in this life, because one day there will be a change and you might not value that thing again.
Back then , I had a friend who was a phone freak. The guy loves changing phones to a new brand every three or four months. As at then , he never had a lot of things to worry about, he was still staying with the parents, was also hustling in the parents company , so everything was okay. But after some years , growth happens, responsibilities came knocking, he is no longer staying with the parents, he is also hustling alone to survive and now he is able to use one phone for upto 3 years not months again. I believe his perception to life changed over time and with experience and he had to adjust without anybody telling him to do so.
Even as a man , at a certain stage of your life , you notice that you start losing interest over some things that you once take very serious, you now realize that as a man , your peace of mind becomes more important to you, escaping poverty and becoming financially stable becomes paramount, the decision of having a good life partner also become a subject of concern. So this is life and change happens.
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