What Does It Mean To Lose Someone? Isn't this a great Topic to know?
Well, I know some of you have gone through a similar experience of losing someone, whether is through death or the break of friendships or relationships.
In my experience, I've lost people that I've loved very much and has been very difficult to recover from that. At the moment you lose someone you love, there is not really a pill you can take for that pain to go away.
It is a pain that cannot be described and almost no one can make you feel better unless they have gone through it as well and can just hug you and provide that energy of understanding and love.
When it comes to death, where you can not longer see that person in this particular life time, it has been very difficult and I know I'm not alone with that.
I lost my mother with the battle of Cancer in 2011 and I can tell you that the pain has never gone away, but I have been able to manage it throughout the time. I'm sure some people are able to recover better, but other actually never do recover at all.
This where joining nature, meditating, educating yourself works to deal with these issues that a lot of people have.
The biggest problem people have is "LETTING GO". People are attached to the love one and they do regret everything they did or didn't do and CANNOT forgive themselves. I believe that's the hardest feeling ever, "forgiving yourself".
My best advised to let go and forgive yourself (if you have to) is to know that person has not really gone away and is still near you. Know that you will see that person again at some point of time and move on with your life the best way you can. I'm not an expert, but this helps to survive with the bad feelings.
Hope this one a little useful for all of you guys.
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