As we all grow older, our goals or focus changes a lot because we are getting matured (that's what I like to think for everyone lol).
When you were a teenager, your goals were different than some of your goals now. Maybe back in the day you used to think Mom was not so great because she always tried to correct you to the right path. Now, Mom may be the best thing because may be you are now a parent or because everyone else failed you in life and your mother always remaind faithful.
The fact is that we are constantly evolving and we tend to think or want different things now days.
I do not want to speak for everyone, but I think the image above says it all of what we all need to focus the most in order to have a peaceful and stable life.
Why?
Because if you are not consistent, you don't really finish very well what you want in life.
Because if you're not someone stable, your life will go all over the place and you will end up driving people crazy.
Because if you're not respectful, you will never get any respect back from others and you will have to foget about your major goals in life.
And finally, if you're not a loyal person, you're going to end up alone due to no one can trust you for anything.
I hope you are familiar with this topic in order to improve your human being life and others.
You change the world by changing yourself and providing a little bit of kindness everyday.