Asslamoalekum and hello to my #WeekendExperiences community. Welcome to another blog. I hope you people are having a great weekend. I am also Ahamdolillah fine and having a great weekend.
I have gone through all the topics of this week. All are interesting but I will go with second one.
What do you feel constitutes bad parenting and why?? Does bad parenting effect the child's life moving forward or can they rise above it?
Believe me being a responsible father is really a very tough job. You have to go through from very tough circumstances. You have to sacrifice your own life for the sake of children. You have to compromise on your dreams for the futuof your children. You have to give them quality time. Your children deserve your attention at early age. A bachelor's life is completely different from married life. When you don't have children, you think it's an easy job to bring up those children. But when you go through from this process, you realise it's a very difficult and procss. At every stage of married liyou have to sacrifice your intersets.
I have two daughters and a cute son. And being a father I am trying to fulfill my responsibilities as a father. But I think bad parenting starts when you don't give qualitime to your children. When you ignore children's intersts. Your children need your attention they need your quality time. If you are giving them all the resources but not giving them quality time, you are not fulfilling your responsbilities.
When you scold your children on every little thing your children loose confidence. Your children hesitate while sharing their thoughts with you. Bad parenting first stage is a bad behavior of mother and father of children. When they quarrel with each other their children start feeling bad and humiliated.
In tge long run bad parenting definately effect children future. The parenare are truely responsible for children's future. If you start giving them confidence at early age they become more productive persons of te society.
The Children are innocent creature of God. You have to tackle and deal with your children technically. Every child has different merits and demerits. You cannot tackle all your children with one unique style. But I have noticed that every child learn from exhibition of their parents. They don't learn only from dictation but they learn from practical approach. If you want your cchildren don't tell lie and become a true teller and true lover then you have to act upon true telling. When you tell true, your children start telling true. But if you don't tell true and expect your children tell true then you are deceiving yourself. They will never tell true because they act what they see from their parents.
I never dictated my children. When I want something from children, I start acting those things. For example eing a Muslim I want my children offer prayers five times a day, I offer prayer five times a day. When they see me ooffering prayer they start acting like that. The children don't need dictation, they just need exhbiof suc particular thing.
