First of all we are addicted to the people and world so much that our belief system is full of attachments and society logics. Our mind try to grasp the things which are easy and which require no efforts. For us, happiness is being in a relationship or achieving something great in life. We have build the belief system so strong that now its too tough to change it. We forgot to control our mind. We are allowing every thought to come in. We are allowing everyone to hit us. We are inviting every destructive pleasure. We are harming us by doing things we don't like. We are becoming toxic by being thinking the same negative thought every day. This belief system and wrong information is never going to make you fall in love with yourself. We want the solution at the moment.