If you always treat good thoughts as angel and treat bad thoughts as devil, you will never find peace. Angel & Devil fighting all along the way. The binary opposition of presupposition is likely to be the source of pain, why not treat yourself as a whole?
如果你总是把好的想法想象成天使,把不好的想象成恶魔,那你的脑子就不会安宁,天使和恶魔总会不停地在那儿打架。这种二元对立的预设很可能是痛苦的根源,为什么就不能把自己看作是一体的呢?
Some boys(maybe around 18~28) love to let woman picking up clothes for them. They're very likely NOT having any judgement about clother. Maybe they're lucky, maybe not. Lucky for them, if they can really enjoy this part. Unfortunately for them, if they find out they know nothing themselves.
一些男孩(也许18~28岁之间)很喜欢让女人帮他们选衣,他们自己也似乎没有能力去判断哪些衣服自己穿着会好看。他们也许是幸运的,也许是可悲的。幸运在于他们在那一刻能充分享受对方母性的温暖,可悲在于他们连自己想要什么都不知道。
Children are not sensitive to time? Maybe. He can sit on a bus for 1~2 hours without doing anything. He can also complain about time passing too soon because he is playing some interesting games. Actually, the way he sense time is not like adults. Although he know nothing about hours, minutes nor seconds, he use the sense of his body to know about time.
孩子对时间真的不敏感吗?也许吧,他可以在公交上安静地坐上一两个小时,只是看风景而不做任何事。他在玩到好玩的事情,也会嫌时间过得太快。其实,他感知时间的方式并不是以小时、分钟、秒或任何单位来计算的,他用的完完全全就是自己的身体感受。
If you could have a pill that could fix one most urgent problem from yourself, what do you want to solve? The first thought comes up in my head is "desire". But soon enough I realize, that would be a meaningless life if I don't have any desires. Desire never did anything wrong about ourselves, suppression did. If you don't suppress, what's the problems?
若然世间存在一种药丸,一吃下去就能帮你解决一个你最想解决的问题,你想要解决什么?一开始我想到的是解决“欲望”,但随即又想到,没有欲望的人生岂不是毫无生气?也许欲望本身根本就没错,而且那个想要制止欲望的念头出了问题。不抵触,又何来争端?
Accumulation could easily been forgotten. Take an example about carrying bricks. I carry a lot of bricks everyday, is this some kinds of accumulation? Can I use a flag like "Professional Bricks Carrier For 1000 Days"? Maybe the manager of the construction site would like it, but it has no value for any bigger markets. If we need real accumulation, we still need to think about the most valuable point in the market.
积累的作用很容易会被忽视,就拿搬砖来说吧。我每天都搬了很多砖,这能算积累吗?我能给自己加一个标签叫做“专业搬砖1000天”吗?也许工地里面的工头会很喜欢我这样的专业搬砖工,但对整个市场来说价值很小。要积累,也要考虑所积累的事在市场中最终能呈现的价值。