Sounds wired, right? You are probably thinking how can you love the thing you actually hate. Okay, think about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. LOL, Most of us probably love and hate the person at the same time. So, this behavior is totally normal and it's totally possible to love the things we actually hate.
We all don't do things we like. It's totally okay to not like what you are doing for a living or any life activity of yours. But, as we are something like bound to do that, so it's better to find a way to fall in love with the activity. It can be a habit, a job-related activity or anything. I have seen one of my relative who works on HR have to do a lot of photocopy of confidential files on his own. As those were confidential it can't be handed over to any office staff. You can guess how boring that could be. But he finds a way out to make it fun and likable. So, how he did it and how we all can do that?
As a first step, start moving with a goal and not with a goal. I think that's the most important aspect of life and if you are not taking action to get something, I think that you are not taking action at all. Start from a goal and move from there.
Focus on the result. It's not easy to find love in what you don't want to do. Like the gym maybe. But if you managed yourself to focus on the result, how you are gonna look like after the gym you will probably love the process.
Take the plunge and see if you are willing to do it yourself. But if you are not sure I suggest you do it, you get a feel for the process through a test. You can choose yourself what you want to do, go out to the gym and do it or do nothing at all and see what it comes down to. Go out to the gym and don't leave. Make sure it is fun and do what you have to during the course of the practice if you are doing something you are not comfortable. Take a look at those people that don't leave. I think you will find you are happier with that.
Know your motivation. Think about why you are here, why you have to do this and what's the reality is. You have to do this, no ole else gonna do that for you, you will get this or that after this, and this things gonna happen to you after this. Calculate this. Even a boring thing can bring a potential outcome.
Be real to yourself. Make fun at work or add fun to the process. Stay positive towards the work and try to enjoy your surroundings. Life will not always give you the perfect choices. So, we have to make it easier for us to go through the process.