WHAT MOTHERHOOD WOULD LOOK LIKE FOR ME

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Hello Once Again Hive Community.

It's your girl jachy@jachy and I will be talking about a very crucial topic called Motherhood.

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What is Motherhood

This is a state of being a mother, well I feel motherhood starts immediately after a woman finds out she is pregnant, it could be a moment of joy or something unspeakable depending on the event surrounding it. She tends to feel love toward the little creature, feeling their movement and even talking to them sometimes. Suddenly she starts imagining his/her looks, complexion, eye, nose, and mouth.

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For me, this is where motherhood begins.

Motherhood is a full-time job without a salary which is done with love. Being a mother is a lifetime job, even as her child grows she still cares. A mother's joy can never be duplicated, there is a popular saying

There is no other god in life like a mother.

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Moving on, I would like to ask a buzzing question that has been on my mind for a while, which is

Can a mother forget her child?

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Can she stop loving her child?

The answer is NO.

Everyone may leave but a mother never leaves, she keeps motivating, comforting, and loving her child. This is called ENDLESS LOVE.

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I have always imagined being a mother (Jachy as a mother). I have always daydreamed of having a baby girl first like she will have long hair, adorable eyes, black with a touch of brown, a pointed nose and so many more.

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Yeah,

It might sound crazy but I am still dreaming about it. Jachy will be the kind of mother that will slay with her child, caution them, spoil them with food (I'm a foodie), and make time to have fun (outings and excursions). Teaching my children self-worth, and self-confidence will differently be our day-to-day talk, also sex education is very important, every child should know the advantages and disadvantages of sex at an early to avoid being prey.

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I will share my experiences with them, my mistakes, happiest moments, and relationships as well so they can learn from them, some mothers make the mistake of not communicating with their children, but I won't make that mistake because I want them to be free to tell me anything like what happened in school, who is their best friend? who they don't get along with and all of that, this is very important, teach them how to love unconditionally and also sacrifice. To love their neighbors and even enemies. Contentment is a keyword that every child should have and learn because a lack of contentment is the beginning of the rebellion.

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Mothers play a very vital role in their children's lives. A child's mental, emotional, and physical health sorely depends on the home, especially their mothers.
Finally, set good examples for them to follow, be a role model to them, welcome them with one hand, and scold them with the other hand. Teach them about life entirely. These are the few things I will do as a mother.

All the best to the mothers out there and see you in my next write-up

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