I kind of learned to be silent in those moments. Words muddle enough as it is.
:D Sadly I'm one of those people that can't help themselves. I don't know, I'd say learning and moving on would be the best thing, appreciating the moments we have and doing the best with them. For some reason I feel all of you as an extended family, maybe because I'm not attending to myself and my relatives, for some reason I relate better to strangers who just share the same experience and thoughts... See better shut up...

Keep it up.