Of course every parent will want their children to be at their best in terms of behavioural aspects, as no one will want to undergo any stress that has to deal with their children's behaviour, since as a parent you already have a lot going on in your head.
You have to deal with major problems like ensuring that everyone is comfortable and this can only be achieved when you provide one.
Now you in return as a parent will demand absolute peace from your children. Anything aside, this (peace) from your children is uncalled for and this can destabilize the focus of any parent.
I grew up under a careful watch of my mum, molding me into what I have become today. Some traits that were passed to me which I would love my children to take from me to ensure we all live in peace with no one standing on anyone's neck.
I have known myself to be extravagantly gentle. It means my gentility has no bounds in all aspects. When you meet me it's always gentle.
I have come across a lady who have done all things to see that she brings out the anger in me but unconsciously I scale through all her test and trials but then she asked me the question “Do you ever get Angry?’”
My response was just a smile and that's it. Don't quote me wrong not that I don't get angry but my anger rarely comes and it's not always good when it shows up so I don't even advise anyone to want to see the other side of my gentility.
As much as I want my children to go on with such traits. If I am to shape them I will not want the 100% gentility in them. I would rather prefer they possess some little traits of rascals. Please do not judge me upon this statement.
I have been cheated on several occasions just because I let my gentle behaviour take over me, things that rightfully belong to me have been taken just because I don't want a problem, I am scared of making trouble and that is why I often let something go.
So, You can see how bad this thing can be most of the time.
Dear children, as much as I don't like trouble, you also should stay away from one when you see one but please learn to fight for it when you know it rightfully belongs to you. In as much as we want peace to reign but there are times when without conflict there won't be room for a better development so if you must grow then you must learn to fight for it.
