Confidence in every aspect of your life is a very important component to accomplish success. Some of us might feels that our Self-confidence might be inconsistent, it always changes. Sometimes, you feels like you can be so entertaining around certain people, while another time, it feels like they are absorbing your energy and you feel awkward around them. We can see that the self-confidence is a mental condition that you must deal with properly. You must have self-management or the right solution to increase your feelings of insecurity or mental weakness.
Many people think that it is difficult to have a good mentality and self-confidence. It's true, if you believe you are, because your subconscious mind has indoctrinated yourself to not be able to believe in yourself. However, it's not difficult to increase your self-confidence, it's just that you need deep-rooted confidence in yourself so you can have good mentality and confidence. The steps will be simple, but it needs your effort to make change in your life. When you work on your confidence, somehow your subconscious mind will be embedded in your strong mentality, and when your subconscious mind has embedded your beliefs well, you will trust yourself easily.
These are several steps to build your confidence, summarized from Hitman System:
Forget all the misery things in your life, forget it all as it never happened! Now, you should close your eyes and remember the proudest time in your life. The time when everyone look at you and smile at you. The time when you become the best you can be. the question is, what had you done there? what attribute that bring you to that moment? remember this attribute as your strength. remember again another proud moment, and get the attribute that makes you feel great.Then, make a list of your strength based on those moments. Do you feel the pride, your smile, spirit in your chest, even just by remembering it? That's your confidence!
Now, this is the hardest step, but this step will make your confidence become permanent. You should push yourself to hang out with more people, join more community, and interact with more people. This is an important step because no confidence that can be build without encouragement and practice with other people. Then, every time you interact in that community, try to position yourself as someone with certain strength from the previous step. For example, if you are good at playing guitar, find opportunity to show it to more people when interacting with them. Speak about your achievement and how you are still exercising your skill. People will see your passion as confidence, and guess what, you'll identify yourself with the skill eventually.
After you expand your community, the consistency to make yourself become better on your strength become the key for permanent confidence with any kind of people.
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