Trust is just a word, but it is one of the most favored and precious ones for humans. The world is in chaos, and trusting anyone is one of the most difficult things to do, but choose to trust people because without trust it is almost impossible to go forward. In the evening there is the chance of breaking the trust by others; we need to take the risk, otherwise life is not less than hell. It's necessary to be careful whom we trust, and we mostly do it, but instead of cheerful consideration, sometimes we choose the wrong person to trust, and there is nothing that can be done in the case. Maybe it's fate.
Trust is a very sensitive thing, and if someone breaks our trust, we feel hurt. Naturally, we don't think of trusting the same person again, but it says that trust can be regained if one makes continuous effort and truly feels guilty for past actions. This is the way of remaining trust for the second time. People have different opinions on it, and in my case, I have my own opinion. In my eyes trust is like a mirror. If a mirror is broken for arms, it cannot be fixed. Even if someone tries to fix it, it cannot be brought back to its original shape. This is something that is nearly impossible to do. A person who can break the trust once can do it again and again, and that's human nature. So in my opinion, a person should not deserve a second chance after breaking trust. At least this time I'm not ready to trust anyone for the second time in such a case.
In friendship and relationships, what is the most important thing? In both cases, we need to be tolerant because of different thoughts. Having differences is very natural, but mutual trust is required. If in a relationship, trust is shaken for a while, there will be doubt all the time. I was never in a relationship, but one time breaking the trust in a relationship means there will always be doubt, for sure, and it is impossible to eliminate. In the case of friendship, I think it may not seem serious from the outside, like a relationship, but for me, it's a very serious issue. I will maintain distance from certain people who broke my trust once.
I have heard many people say many times that there are valid reasons for breaking the trust, which is ridiculous to me. If there is a valid reason, then I think one can understand it, and in that case, I don't think anyone is breaking the trust. Suppose one of my friends or partners promised me to accomplish some task, but didn't do it in the end. I know that my friend broke the promise, but breaking a promise can sometimes have a valid reason. If there is a valid reason, then I think breaking the promise is not necessarily a bad thing. Breaking a promise and breaking trust are not the same thing.
I am the most calculative person, and for me, trusting someone for the second time is nothing more than foolishness. Additionally, it's my choice, and I'll decide whatever I think is good for me. But in some cases, especially for financial gain, I may choose to do calculative trust with certain people for sure, but I will be cautious and make sure the person has no chance to take advantage of it.
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