Life is not like a video game and everything in life cannot be pre-determined. Life has its own rule, and it does not matter how much we try, we cannot change everything, but we can try your best to eliminate the risk as much as possible. In life we need to grow through various kinds of situations. Ups and downs in life are parts of life. Good times of life give us some precious memories, but our struggling time gives us lessons that help us to grow and to be a better person of ourselves.
It's true that nobody wants to face struggling situation in life as long as possible and it’s natural because that kind of situation makes us uncomfortable. If I can enjoy my whole life in a comfort zone without facing any troubles, I would love to enjoy such a life. My thoughts are very simple. If in life I can pass it like living in paradise, what's wrong having the desire to enjoy such a life when it's possible. Who bothers to grow up if it were possible unless someone has psychological issues. But the reality is that trying to live in paradise is not something possible and that's why we need to embrace the uncomfortable situations also. Let me share some examples from real life.
Parents always try their best to protect their children and having the desire to protect is a natural instinct of parents. Parents try to ensure the safety of their children no matter what. From going from one place to another, parents always accompany their children because parents think that their children may lose their way or face any danger on the way which may make them uncomfortable. Children also don't want to face that kind of situation, but they need to go through it if they want to grow. At least after certain time parents should embrace it and let them face the world for their growth.
I had a niece and my sister, and her husband were overprotective about her. They handled everything about my niece, and she was kind of clueless about the world and how the system works. She was also admitted to my university and university was indeed far from the place and it was indeed troublesome for my sister to accompany her daughter every day. So, my sister used to leave her in railway station and from there she used to go to university with me. My niece was so clueless that she needed to hold hands to ride on a train and even her seat needed to be arranged. She was admitted in university, but she was like a little kid. She was dependent on others even for silly reasons. She also didn't bother herself to come out from her comfort zone.
Her mother could not accompany her every day, and she was forced to face the difficulties all of a sudden. It was quite struggling for her, and she was embarrassed also for that reason. Later she learnt about how to travel shorter distances but still she is afraid to travel alone when the distance is far. Travelling from one place to another face was something simple but she didn't leave her comfort zone when it was time and now, she became like that. She didn't grow up properly from that perspective. I think that she should face the uncomfortable struggle in the past and it might make her brave to face situations like that.
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