Friends are one of the most valuable people who exist in this world. After the family members, they are the most important person for us. Even for some, they can be more than family members for some people depending on the situation although for me family members are my priority but friends are also important for me. I believe that with friends life is more enjoyable. And without friends life can be very boring.
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I was introverted in my childhood and till XII class It was the same. So, from my childhood, I hardly talked to others when it was necessary. Besides in my 11 years of school life, I changed 5 schools and for that reason, I had never a friend circle. It's very natural to have at least one friend circle in life like a gang. But I never had such kind of circle in my life but I made some good friends in my life who are more precious than those so-called friend circles or gangs.
To be honest I am very selective and careful in the case of choosing a friend and I consider almost everything before choosing one although I know friendship happens automatically. I was just extra cautious in case of friendship nothing else. I think because of being more cautious about It, many one left me although I never regret it because it's better having no friends rather than having many fake friends.
In my 25 years of life, I have only very few true real friends. But it's more than enough for me. Some of them became my friend because of their good personalities and character and I don't care about the academic things. Some became my friend because It was destiny and I have some special friends in my life who think like me and take decisions like me. They are very special to me and I think we are the same and it's not possible to isolate our souls from each other. Those special friends play a very important role whenever in the case when I get mentally disturbed.
Honestly, I talk with most of my friends rarely, and most of them currently stay far from me because of educational purposes in different places in our country. Even though we talk rarely but we feel a special connection between us whenever we talk. I think you also feel the same when you talk to your friends.
One question may be coming to your mind that there exist many people in this world and why do only a few of them become my friend? And what is the benefit?
The answer is quite simple. I feel a special connection with them and they also feel the same and for me, it's enough to be friends. Besides, friendships are not made based on any condition and I think in the case of friendship we should not expect the benefit from it because it's a pure thing and we should not add desire in that pure relation. But it's true that some benefits come automatically but expecting benefits from friendship is not the right thing.
As a friend of theirs, I have a helpful mentality and I try my best to help them whenever they need and all of my friends try to do the same thing. Bad times and good times are part of our life and we can't avoid our bad times. All of my friends support me all the time and I am confident that in the future if I face bad times they will stay by my side. I will do the same even if any one of my friends faces a bad situation. Friendship is like a barrier which protects us from danger and our bad times.
It's true that there exist many people who pretend to be our friends but they are actually not and sometimes they turned out our enemies also. So we need to be careful about it. In my case, I am confident that nothing would happen because all of my friends are proven ones even if I have very few friends and those friends are enough to enjoy life and share my feelings with them.
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