Barry Cardow found love after many years of single life. He was very much happy with his new found love because of the companionship and how easy life turned out to be. It was like she was his lucky charm, just as the Bible said that the one who founds a wife obtains favour from God. He could quickly conclude she was his wife because of the many lucks he got just after he met her.
Barry and Ama found the company of each other enjoyable while meeting physically, or talking on phone. They keep in touch as often as they could and never got tired of each other. One could tell from their relationship with others that something had happened positively for them.
Barry as the man in the relationship was in search of ways to make money to help himself, sustain the relationship and most importantly make Ama happy. At the time he met his beloved, he had little or no source of income but luckily for him, he found a gold-mine and joined. He had only met for about three months but when he found the gold-mine, he had a divided attention because both Ama and the gold-mine were important.
Barry had to choose between Ama and Gold-mine which one would take more of his time. Unconsciously, he traded off Ama and gave more of his time to the gold-mine. Barry was constantly making money while his relationship suffered. Many times, Ama complained but no reasonable adjustments were made by Barry. Ama needed attention and care but Barry only sent money and only made himself for conversation once in a while.
There was a long break in communication between Barry and his beloved Ama. Ama could not tell if this relationship was still on. She was tired of waiting for an improvement in a relationship she was not sure of its future. She called it off on a certain day.
Barry lost Ama. He was devasted but still held on to the gold-mine he found. He realized his mistakes and was willing to do better in the relationship but Ama was not ready to give it another chance. Barry was heartbroken but he had was tightly held to his gold-mine. It was his only consolation because he continuously made money from it.
It was not easy for Barry to get over the heartbreak. He pressed for her for months until they turned a year. It took a year and five months before Barry could move on. He had to cut ties with her to get his sanity of mind.
At this point, Barry was almost hopeless but he had God. He kept on trusting God to bring his own but was clueless of how or when it would happened seeing that he was approaching 32 and it looks like he had wasted some years of his life. In his mind, he should have gotten married earlier when he was much younger.
After about two months after, he was divinely connected to a lady he didn't know from Adam and she met all the specifications he wanted in a lady. Because this was a divine connection, they got along so easily and shared many past experiences. Jossy was Barry new found prospective wife. She was smart, intelligent, hardworking and a goal oriented young lady who not minding the short time, continually pushed Barry to achieve great things.
It was not difficult for him to make the decision to settle down with her seeing the great potentials she possessed.
Barry had been in some relationships in the past but he could tell in just few days of meeting Jossy that she was his long awaited life partner. Jossy on the other hand was also able to see the great future Barry had and the beautiful couple they could be. She didn't hesitate to say YES when Barry finally proposed. In less than a year of meeting each other, Barry and Jossy wedded and are happily married today.