Yes! This advice is spot on. I've been mostly not an asshole during all these shitty times. Have had a couple breakdowns and I hope I've been forgiven.

I figure since I'm not perfect, I better be able to let go of transgressions from others as well.

Your wife's remarks remind me of an old bumper sticker.

See Dick drink
See Dick drive
Don't be a Dick

You could replace the word drink with plenty of other terms. 🙂👍