Before I had mentors in Life, I had a family. Everything I needed to become a better person every Corrections, guidance and sacrifices that were made came from a place of love but we sometimes misinterpreted that love, most of us thought it came from hate or a form of punishment but it moulded us to who we are today.
We can all agree that a lot of family today acts as strangers in their own home, focused on their devices, guided by the walls of their room. They rarely come out to have a moment together, just come out to take their food then go back inside. Did this come with Evolution and modern Technology?
I can't say same for few years back, we know every little detail that happens in the home, we are always aware of what's happening. We ate our meal sometimes in a a big tray together, keeping away our gadgets in these special moments.
This leads me to answer the question, "How can Family members strengthen their Bonds"
I know this sounds so simple, but you should know how important it is to share a meal together. Distant people can't just share their meal together, there must be a connection and Trust. Whenever someone uses the term, "We even Eat together" whenever describing friendship, it shows how close they've been.
What I loved in our home was how that love was portrayed, we usually took our dinner together. We sat together every morning to take our breakfast while we discuss what's necessary, we talk of how the day will go and we know every detail about ourselves. A very important thing is that we don't let our phones seperate us from that special moment.
That little conversations that looks like nothing is usually very important. I enjoy listening to my dad talk about his early life, his hustling life from childhood and how he was able to pick up in Life. I have learnt a lot from his own Life, and i have seen his mistakes and I have also learnt from it.
Prayers strengthens the family, that little moment together where everyone agree to one thing and pray for success and development of everyone together. This act alone shows that they want the success of each family member.
This kind of strong family bond would strengthen a person's emotional well-being. It defines how the society would be, a group of good family makes a good society. A family that makes sure everyone gets it right would groom successful people in Life. I'm on my journey to being a Very Successful person
