Dear Me: WEEK 146

A long time ago I read this somewhere, nothing like telling yourself what you would like others to tell you, it is a way to give you self-love, to write for you, to give you that encouragement, that friendly word, that makes you feel better, and to see that you are doing well, that you are on the right track.

For some time now, I have felt that my life has no meaning, and maybe I am not the only one, we have all gone through those moments when we wish our life was different, different or similar to others, but it is not so, this is your life, the one you chose, no one imposed it on you, so you just have to accept it, and live it, the best you can.

I will take advantage of this space to write these lines, either for me or for anyone who needs it and feels identified.

Let's write a letter.

From: My
To: My

Dear Me, I know that lately you have not been feeling well physically and emotionally, because the physical affects your emotions, it is understandable, it is not easy to deal with what you feel and suffer, especially to make others understand, but it's okay, the time will come to feel better, just be patient, and keep your faith.

I know you feel that your life has no meaning, that you live in a constant monotony, you compare yourself with others, you see how everyone is moving forward, while you are still there, while everything criticize you, and pretend to tell you what to do, how to live, but how easy it is for others to give their opinion, to get into your life, without measuring words, to ask those uncomfortable and unnecessary questions, and you can only smile and pretend that it's okay.

Because the world will be like that, or rather people, is something you don't understand, and maybe you will never understand, but that's okay, it's not your problem to seek to understand them, just focus on you, on what you need to feel good, to be happy.

Dear, you must accept that, in spite of everything, you are doing well, you are a good girl, a good friend, sister, and woman, and even if you feel and think that others do not see it, you do, you know how you are, that is what is important, don't worry, you are on the right track, everything takes time, and yes, I know you have said this many times, but well, what else, it is not like pressing a button, and make things happen fast, or as you would like, they will happen when they have to happen and that's it.

Sometimes when we do things in a hurry, it does not turn out well, and something always comes up, so it is best to take things slowly, go step by step, as I said you are on the right track, do not despair, and try to see the positive side of everything that happens to you, even if it costs you a little to do it.

I know you get frustrated when things get complicated, you get stressed, and you get upset, when you feel like that, just take a deep breath, try to stay calm, to relax, it is not so easy, I know, but putting yourself in that way, does not help or do you good, on the contrary, it only makes you worse, and you need to be and feel better, to heal, both inside and out.

I can only tell you, God's timing is perfect, always remember that every time you feel bad and feel like giving up, not everyone is going to understand you, or give you what you need, you have to do it yourself, because no one is going to come to heal you, or take you out of your space, you have to do it yourself.

I just hope that one day you will have the courage to face it, come out of that hiding place you are in now, and shine outside, I know you can, just take your time, give it some beauty, keep believing in yourself and nothing else.

Only self-love will make us feel better and confident.