"Transactional love, prompt # 124"
Transactional love is generally, that kind of love that two people or more have signed up some documents either in the court of law, or somewhere else, to live together and be paying each other in kind or with some money to do certain things in their house.
Transactional love is agreed and are done in other to receive some pronounced benefits attached as a payment from each other. In such a love affairs, They could sign up that the man, (husband) should be cooking all the foods in the house, or will be washing dishes or sweeping the house as at when due, but under payments.
Anyday he abhorred performing his significant duties, his love contract could be terminated by his wife instantly by the court of law or elsewhere.
There has to be some serious decisive agreements between the people that are involved in it and it has to be kept so without emotional feelings.
There has to be a must do or a must provide attachments and a forced benefits to their love in between the two lovers that are involved in it.
Transactional love is quite different from unconditional love. In an unconditional love both of the lovers are loving freely from their hearts but that doesn't stop gifts and giftings to each other, but such flow freely from each other's heart and are on a willingness level not by force or by any law suit enforcement of documents..
In transactional love, both of the partners do not have peace, they rather find faults from each other, no any atom of forgiveness at any mistake or at any errors or wrong doing to each other. They're attracted to each other because of what and all they stand to gain from the relationship. It's business like, very strict. Never flexible at all.
They're always panicking, they don't have peace of mind, being extremely careful not to offend each other. Transactional love has a duration of time but the unconditional love lasts till death do you couples apart.
This is the acceptable kind of love orchestrated by God Almighty, who is the owner and the initiator of love, either in marriage or elsewhere, and this is the best known and the best practised kind of love ever.
In the practice of unconditional love, each of the people involved are determined to show kindness, sympathy, loving or acceptable emotions, feeling for each other, it's mostly practiced between man and woman, or between husband and wife. The couples are determined here to make their relationship to work.
In Transactional love setting, it can end up by just a little mistake or when the gains are no more there.
There are attractive attractions in between both of them that others may not even see which warranted them getting married in the first place. I mean when the love is unconditional... It's beautiful ❤️.
This is where a husband or wife can go extra miles showing affections, maybe buying what he or she knows quite well that his or her partner loves just to put smiles and excitement in the heart of each other without strictly demanding for refunds, and it will never cause any trouble at home or wherever else.
There are many kinds or forms of love existing in the world today between some people, although that's their own choices.
The initiator and the owner of love affairs has kept it reachable to all humans. That's the unconditional love and selfless love full of kindness and happiness
But some individuals have decided to suffocate themselves with "Transactional love" it's very hard to maintain, it causes sickness, harassment and very unbearable and unbelievableb...it doesn't provide joy and sincerity. It should be discarded.
Thank you for engaging with me. This is my take about this week's prompt # 124.
"Transactional love"
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