Never say to anyone, "The day I go away, the day you wont find me." Or "The day I die you will understand what I was." Because the one who did not value you in your presence will not be able to do anything in your absence.
By saying these, we are actually comforting ourselves. We think they will be disappointed for us when we are not there. In reality, this is not the case.
Moreover, what you have not been able to enjoy in the present, who regretted for you after you became in the past, then there is no profit or loss for you.
We humans are actually arrogant. That is why I say these things when my relatives neglect or neglect them. The reality is different. Those who go away never look for it and never look for it.
And a lot of times we do that, we want to hold on to any relationship. It is seen that one does not want to be in a relationship with him in any way or he does not like to be in a relationship anymore or his para seems; But we want to force him to hold on to that.
A lot of times the man is leaving with mercy. Giving you time like begging. And you are satisfied with that. And when the man is out of breath, maybe he will set a certain day, month and tell you, "Then there will be no more talk. Now say goodbye to me."
Do you still have anything to gain from this relationship? Yes there is. As long as you continue this relationship, your suffering will continue to increase at a rate of two to three times the amount of mountains.
So don't wait any longer. Because after that time he will no longer beg you for time. And how much more begging can be taken, right?
Try to get out of the relationship little by little before the allotted time. If it's hard to say goodbye, say no and keep retreating.
Try it yourself. Then you will see that you do not have to go until the appointed time. Before he could do so, he slowly retreated and his vision went out of bounds. Then it will not be necessary to say goodbye by organizing and it will be difficult to say goodbye.
There is no guarantee that the end of all relationships will be sweet....