You don't have time to judge others when you're properly focused on your life.
You get luckier once you understand that helping others doesn't increase your chances of success, quite the opposite. Don't shy away from uncomfortable conversations. They make you grow.
Overthinking won't help. Learn to know when enough is enough. Learn to jump when it's right. People who lack patience never get ready. Difficult books makes you smarter. Difficult training makes you stronger. Difficult experience makes you wiser.
Difficult investment makes you where the difficult conversation makes you sharper difficult goals make you grow faster and now let's choose the more difficult part.