I’m not sure how I landed on the girlhood safety tips videos on TikTok, but I did. After one video, I landed on the next and the next, all thanks to the algorithm for taking me there, and I was shocked.
I saw several videos on safety tips for ladies, especially ladies living alone. The more videos I watched, the more I realized that so many women are living in constant fear.
It's heartbreaking to see a lot of women scared. We have so many women living with trauma and fear and this can adversely affect their lives and their relationship with people. While men too go through a lot, for this post, I am speaking from a woman’s point of view because I am a woman.
As a lady, you walk around the street or you enter a place you have to be observant and careful to the core. Sometimes, it does feel like we are walking on eggshells but then again one cannot be too careful.
The number of women who have been murdered continues to skyrocket. No matter how we look at it women are easy prey.
Women are built to be soft, emotional, and sensitive as opposed to our male counterparts making it easy for people to take advantage of us.
I finally concluded recently that being a woman is a full-time job. You just have to put so much effort into this job and excel in it.
There won’t always be a knight in shining armor waiting somewhere to come to your rescue when you are in trouble just like we see in cartoons and movies, heck there won’t be a fairy godmother somewhere to wave a wand to kill all the bad guys. In real life, you have to be able to defend yourself.
Today, I’ll love to share a beautiful song with you all. You guys have probably heard this song countless times but have you paid attention to the lyrics and gotten the message the songwriter was trying to pass across?
This beautiful song is titled Girl on Fire by Alicia Keys, the beautiful and talented Alicia Keys we all know.
This beautiful song was released in November 2012 and the song is truly Fire.
This song emphasizes the strength and capabilities of women. It also celebrates women's empowerment, strength, and resilience.
She's livin' in a world and it's on fire
Filled with catastrophe
But she knows she can fly away
It’s a song that believes that women can do great things and rise against societal norms and expectations.
'Cause they can see the flame that's in her eyes
Watch her when she's lightin' up the night
Nobody knows that she's a lonely girl And it's a lonely world
Even though we women are built to be soft and considered a weaker gender, we shouldn’t conform to societal norms. This song preaches hope and bravery, that we can be women and still do great things.
The world can sometimes be a scary place to live in for women but we should never give up or give into fear, because fear can only hold us back.
Looking for a sweet and inspiring song to listen to? I recommend Girl on Fire.
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