Moderation is the key. I can be very playful most times, because of my playful nature my friends would always tease me that I didn’t play when I was little but I don’t pay attention to what they say. Even though I play a lot I know when to draw the line, I know when to call a spade a spade and not a shovel, and when I am in that mood I tend to look like another person.
We all have aspects of life that we approach with varying degrees of seriousness. What are some things you find yourself taking too seriously? Conversely, what's something important that you often overlook or don't take seriously enough?
There are some things I take seriously and my playful self has to disappear automatically while there are some others that I don’t take seriously.
To start with, anything that gives me money in this life I take pretty seriously, that includes my job and my side hustles.
I take my job seriously as I do not have another one lying around somewhere and to get a good job currently in my country is so hard. So yes, I take my job pretty seriously as that’s where I get my monthly paycheck.
I try my best to carry out my duties effectively and to always stand out. I might not be the best employee at my firm but home girl always does her best.
I take my family seriously, I can mess around with so many things in life but not my family. My family will forever be my number one support system. They’ve been there and will always be there as the only constant in my life😃
Just the way I take my family seriously I also take my friendships and relationships with people seriously, if you are my friend, that’s it! I’d do whatever it takes for our friendship to grow, I’d treat you right, I’ll support you and will try to be there for you whenever you need me🥰
I’m big on self-improvement, anything that is or will be instrumental to my growth I take seriously. I am so intentional about my growth that I can do whatever it takes for me to be that strong successful woman that I have always dreamed of. I’ve got it all mapped out so there’s no room for unseriousness.
There are some things people consider important that I don’t take seriously, to me they will always be “those things”.
To start with winning an argument. To a lot of people winning an argument is very important to them as it shows how knowledgeable they are on the said topic or how convincing they are as individuals. A lot of people are willing to go back and forth countless times just to make their point but for me, I do not have that luxury of time nor do I have the energy to keep arguing, I’ll say my piece, and I’d make sure you hear it loud and clear and I’d walk away like nothing ever happened, you my legal friend can keep arguing all by yourself and win whatever trophy that you are after.
Another important thing that I think I do not take seriously is eating healthy. I’m a big foodie and as a result of that I keep eating and eating without taking cognizance of all the balanced diet thingy that we humans are to follow to eat healthy. I’ve been advised by my family and friends. I try to eat healthy but I do not just maintain this habit, I end up slipping every time. This year I made a decision to try to eat healthy, I’ve been trying my best but I’m not still where I want to be though but I will never relent😃
One funny thing about me is laughing or cracking jokes when everyone is tense. I can walk into a room where everyone is losing it and I will laugh at how serious they are, and the next minute they are sending me death glares. One thing I believe is that this life is too short to want to kill yourself over a minor setback. With this attitude of mine, most of my friends are tired of me already and can’t help but roll their eyes whenever I begin to perform my wonders😂
I have learnt to strike a balance for everything and it’s working well for me..
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