Sounds familiar? I believe most of the parents struggle with the same situation every single night.
很耳熟能详对吧?我相信大多数身为父母的几乎每一晚都被同一个问题困扰着。
I understand that this is normal toddler behavior. But to make my son lie down and goes to sleep at night is something challenging for us. When he takes a long nap in the evening, he will take a long time to fall asleep in the night. He gets up, again and again, no matter how many times we put him to bed.
有些宝宝很容易哄着哄着就入睡,有些则相反。是正常的我也理解。但是要哄我家的小朋友真的可不简单。他有着的精力不是盖的。每个晚上都让我们哄得我们自己累倒。若有些天他睡了比较长时间得午觉,那天的晚上就有好戏了!无论我们尝试多少次把他抱到床上哄他睡觉,他还是一而再再而三的起身蹦蹦跳跳嘻嘻哈哈,就是不愿意乖乖入睡。因为睡眠对这么小正在发育成长的宝宝来说真的实在太重要了,所以我都一直在坚持。但好像都是我天天在输的情况。
We tried to create a consistent routine for him, helped to set his biological clock, let him goes to bed around 8.30pm, he used to sleep around 9pm-9.30pm. But lately, he changes again. He rubs his eyes and yawns repeatedly. But still, resist his bedtime.
我们尝试过让孩子有一致的时间表,到时间了就得上床睡觉。调好他的生理时钟,都是8.30晚上让他进房,以前好一段日子他都是9-9.30晚上就入睡了。可最近却不一样了。尽管他多么的疲倦都不愿意上床好好入睡。
Dim the room, lullabies, I tried pretending to be asleep, set up a cozy bed with pillows and plushies around, but nothing works. I always doze off very quickly if I lie down with him. I want that little bit of time of my own that I get to spend any way that I want. And he finally nods off, that's about 1-2 hours after he first went to bed.
把灯光调暗,一点音乐,也尝试装睡,让他躺在舒服的不行的床,但是没有一样行得通。若陪他躺着,往往我都是会比他快入睡。偶尔想要自己的私人空间,做些自己喜欢的事情,真的需要等到他睡着才行。终于他安静了下来,睡着了!但有时已是1-2小时之后的事情。
I always know that establishing good sleep habit takes time and a whole load of patience, the extra effort taken now will save many battles in the future(I hope). The job of being a mom is crazily hard, and yet, I believe all moms willing to do it again and again.
我明白要让宝宝培养早睡这习惯需要大量的耐心和时间,我多么希望现在的付出可以换来以后多多的自由!当娘一点都不简单,但是我深信这世上大多数的妈妈都很愿意为孩子不停的不停的付出。