Your mother will not always be there for you. Grandma is not forever coming to your rescue. Soon, you will be on your own. Independence could be your greatest expression of freedom. Happiness abounds with someone who can live fully and independently from people's help or pressures. Occasionally, you need the lifeguard to fish you out of the water. For the most part of your life, do not wait for a rescuer. Attend those swimming lessons. It is the time to leave the childhood dependence and move to adult self-sufficiency. It is good to know that you are more than enough. Therefore, mommy does not have to come. Meet challenges head on and learn from them and grow through them. As you advance in age, make sure that you do not engage in a relationship because you need the other half to complete yourself. No, enter into a relationship with someone based on mutual independence. Real love is meant to be shared with someone.
If your love depends on someone, you will be into a lot of problems.
