-How one of my good friends almost got cucked by his crazy ex girlfriend
Lets begin,
To start with, my buddy was with this girl on and off for about 3 going on 4 years
She was classic "crazy girl and the sex is crazy"
Like many men, he had a white knight savior complex (at the time)
he was going to save this girl
Like many women with Borderline Personality Disorder, she was a master manipulator, and knew how to push all his emotional buttons
These kinds of relationships have a unique dynamic,
The emotional intensity is off the charts, the sexual chemistry can be buck nasty fantasy level
BUT,
The relationship takes over your whole life and breaks you down everywhere else
This girl cost my bro his sanity over time, his confidence, and she pulled the typical psycho girl stunts
-I could never live without you
-I'll kill myself if you were to leave me
-I love you so so SO SO MUCH
-No man is like you...
etc etc
She also nearly got him killed once when she tried to drive his car off the road while they were fighting in the car
He broke his hand punching the wall once in anger
This was not a good relationship
So this goes on and off for a few years,
He's a wreck from it.
Eventually they semi break up, she moves away
Hes flying out to see her periodically (they lived in different states), but month long spans of time inbetween
She becomes pregnant with TWINS
Now, he thinks he's going to be a FATHER.
She insists they are 100% his kids.
He's with her during the pregnancy,
The relationship somewhat becomes functional
he thinks maybe this is the turning point to them finally being a healthy couple
The kids are born
He is their taking care of them.
he thinks they are his kids
HOWEVER,
A paternity test was done when they are born. It takes two weeks to get the results back
The Results of the Paternity Test
-He is NOT the father.
He reads the test results a few times.
He sits.
He starts laughing internally. Then out loud.
He tells her the results.
She insists it must be a mistake, it MUST be
He asks her how many other people was she seeing besides him
She reverts to full psycho breakdown
Insisting they are his kids, maybe she was seeing other people, please believe her, the test is wrong
He finally sees clearly for the first time what she is,
A LIAR
A BPD psycho manipulator that would have trapped him for his whole life and never would have told him the kids werent his had he not made sure to get a paternity test
He was finally FREE of her after that. It broke all illusions and desires to ever be with her or know her
Moral of the story
-Don't date BP chicks
-Dont stick your dick in crazy
-Always get a paternity test
