When you start this journey of experimenting with your design. You will soon figure out that it's not a quick fix. It's a life long journey. It takes 7 years to decondition from all the stuff you identified with but is not you. Letting go off all the traditions, opinions, ideas etc takes time.
I just started my 4th year of deconditioning. And it's amazing to see through all the illusions. And experiencing your own unique flow of life is truely epic